Sunday, February 23, 2014

How to Gain Self Confidence

First in this post want you know use confident very powerful and important for your success in life. What is situation of your confident is first your question on yourself. Then you do all of that for yourself. I have an example: Do you see a beautiful girl with confident? Yes, you will see at her with good style fashion, confident talk, solid thinking, always play and make friend with same people that you desire get around. I mean these girls are hot girls. And another example, do you know a successful people? Yes, you will see at he or she very control their life.

So I want ask you a question, you think how right now a normal people get very successful or very hot, do they can use or express that? No. They can’t.

What you need to do right now and what about mention self confident of you?

My answer is you need confident do that and visualize that. Same you are model of that person absolutely. Live like who you want to be.

So right now how to gain self confidence for yourself? In my experience I will tell you about my work, my social community.

How to gain self confidence for my work?

+Be myself: When at first time to work in my job, I have many worry about other people thinking. I don’t know what I need focus on to improve my situation. I try to be someone else, try to express who difference me that have power and I don’t understand anything else, I don’t know what make everything work with. Finally I understand com from my experience I need to be myself at first. I understand who I am, what I need take care in my work, what I need take responsibility with and what I need to do.

+Love myself: There are many work everyone need to do and me too, but if I don’t think more for myself then I be in stress so much, it very bad with my health. When I understand what I need to do, who I am, what I need responds then I feel love myself so much. I take break and relax when I feel it, don’t work, worry so much. I always feel good about myself, and I think myself about good future that I forward to, I choose that and I will make that happen so I feel good.

+Efforts: When we work well, we will have more confident and get more respect from other people, we make more values to other. So to help I work well, I find out I need listen, look on carefully and do it so much as I can at my work. Because when I can understand more about my connection with other about work and understand more about other doing around me then I can learn from it, I can improve my ability. It need take time to growth but it very powerful and when you do it like me and absolutely you can feel that grow immediately. That is many things you need to do to change in you so you need efforts for it.

How to gain self confidence for my social community?

It is focus on most of mindset, when we understand we can do it whatever we want to achieve results.

+Learn: When we do we can learn from it, and when we learn before then we can do more. That mean always is learning about it. I am very confident to do that because I exceed with what I will learn that I don’t know before. For an example with me, I meet new person then I really want to know how about their life, what they are thinking and what they are desire in life. If that person is good I want to make friend with that person. In many case I learn so much about how to live well, or help me do work better.

+Play game: Don’t worry make mistake. Just play it like a game with numbers. You play then you can learn more about it. With one thing you focus on make new thing with new people and enjoy process is great way to help you confident. For an example, if you are men and you go out to meet a girl for dating. So now, if you get her and that is so good. But if you lose her and you lose nothing in fact, just only is a game and one think you need to do is next with another girl for dating. In that process you can understand more about girls, more about you, what you should do, what you could do. Then you win in perfect person you meet. That is sound great? Yes. Remember, just only is play game in life.

Okay, I just tell you about two areas on how to gain self confidence for myself and absolutely I can apply with other thing in my life. But I only focus on them because they are important enough with my life.

Thank you spend time read my share experience, if you like it comment and share to people you think should to know. Thanks!

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Vision of Young People

What should I give advice about vision of young people?

I can’t put up anything for vision of someone else. Because they have a vision with anything they want to be or achieve.  Choose what great and worth with your efforts to achieve it.

For example myself, I choose to be a coach and share my own experience to other people and help them achieve better things in life.

How I can find my vision? Yes. I follow my passion, follow my bliss. I love getting the knowledge. It might come from experience or come from experts. Knowledge has helped for myself at first, help me achieve more great things, live better, happy, work better and enjoy life. Then I love sharing my experience to help other people achieve like me.

What I should give advice young people need master?

Because even young people have a vision, for long time get many obstacles, challenges may to make them lose vision. Come from my experience you need remember something below:

+Be yourself: If you want follow your bliss in life you must be yourself. Always think about yourself. Take care for you at first take care for other. Because if you not to be good then how you can help other be good.
 
+Believe yourself: Believe you can achieve what you dream or what you want. Believe you deserve with great things in life. Always keep remind that for whatever happen to you.
 
+Confident: When you show up it, everyone around you will feel and see that. Absolutely they like that. Everyone want support you. You can learn more about what you are doing when you become more confident.
 
+Express yourself: Do you feel how singers express their productive, creative, passion? It is so great feel. Try to be best of your field and express to the world.  You want to be hope of other people living for.
 
+Overcome fears, bad feeling: Fast ignore them. And focus on positive things, what you can do, what make you enjoy instead at that time. Because fears and bad feeling happen many time in our day time. It is not help anything for our solution. When you keep remind that and practice do that will become your good habit then change your life so much. It is really with my life.
 
What else I should give advice about?
 
If young people only do things that only help them keep right be who they are, then have nothing to achieve more.

There are five parts you should focus to do and spend money on:
 
+Live expenses: Spend 30% all of your money. Live simple lifestyle, when you rich with a few years to efforts then you can increase your lifestyle.
 
+To learn: Spend 15% all of your money. You can buy book or attend training to get knowledge or help you work better. Never stop learning, when you have more knowledge then you will see new things in life than before and you know you have more ability to do many things than before.
 
+To invest: Spend 25% all of your money. Save your money like that to start with small business. You will learn fastest way of most imports skill of business is selling and have more experience on how to run business well (safe way).
 
+To travel: Spend 10% all of your money. Reward for yourself each a year and you can have new experience in life by meet new people, see new things out there, and more motivation in your work.
 
+Make friend: Spend 20% all of your money. You will meet new people that have same direction with you. Get around have more knowledge than you then you can get knowledge of them. They will teach you how to do something good.
 
What really important I should give advice to young people?
 
That is take massive action until you achieve success. Persistence is necessary and very important to your success or to achieve anything. Everything also need time follow where you are right now. So keep take action and persistence.


Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Motivational Messages To Do And Achieve More

If you do not have any success right now and feel bad about yourself then you should read this. I want to ask you a question "how do you can success while you do not have any motivate to do anything forward to your success?" and absolutely you can't success.

Right now you ask yourself: What motivate you think or do something? Anything? You have to have motivation to achieve success.

When I read an article about a person, he have big motivation to success when he have nothing. Nothing, no one support to him. He have a wife and prepare for a children was born.

When at hard time, he still keep faith and efforts so much to change his life. Right now he achieve what he dream at that time.

Only you know what mean to you then understand what motivate you think and do. And you can use motivation to achieve success in life.

Motivational Messages 1: Right now, right here, you staying and asking yourself about how you can achieve success, what you should do, what you need do, what you could do...
Do you think ask right question on your own life will change everything in your life? I have an example, you want to do something, you ask right question from expert on it then you can do things necessary to get same results and save most of your time.
No magic and no hard to understand that, but what you should ask?

Motivational Messages 2: Do not accept what you are right now!
If you accept what you are doing, who you are right now then you have nothing to do. When you are deep down enough you will see more thing support to you to achieve everything you want. And you can know it right in this case with law (the universe have no matter sizes with what you want).
At time you deep down you can find good time, have peace in soul, follow your bliss...

Motivational Messages 3: Thank-give to what great you have in life and be grateful. You want take care, do more for that, that is most important mean with you and you can't live without them and it. With each your efforts will have you protect and build them. You don't want something bad happen with them, then you willing change and efforts to make great thing happen.

Motivational Messages 4: Give you chance to know more, discover more, understand more things in life around you. Simple feel good when you see something at things or someone.

Motivational Messages 5: Efforts to change is worth than do nothing. With each new day, you have new ideas, make new thing happen in your life. When you efforts then you will get more experience on it and bring to you happy.

Motivational Messages 6: Simple is never give up.
If you do not accept your own level success so what or who will? Believe and persist is way you can do. People always have something up, something down at sometime, but time will over hurt and gain experience.

There are more Motivational Messages and I think you can list more by comment to me, if you like and know someone need this let share it. Thank you!

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Healthy Happy Lifestyle

I love to have healthy happy lifestyle and love to know to keep doing things that necessary on eating, exercise and lifestyle but sometime I feel hard to do. Today I share some how to help overcome bad feel, have more motivation. If you love that let read more and understand 3 areas of healthy happy lifestyle.

1. Keep your life simple

Most of people don't know how affect of simple lifestyle. I mean keeping your life simple is an important key to make long life happy.

And many people have forgotten how simple "simple" really is. A simple life is more than just living on a small salary, you can be a millionaire and yet live simply, free from common worries. You will have to give up some things in life that you really don't need.

You can know a simple life is different from a meaningless life, the former implies simplicity, yet has a purpose. You should have a dream or goals in life to live it to the fullest.

Laugh more often, when a problem happen, might you worry about it but you can laugh while dealing with it. So with clear mind, you will find that the situation involves something you really don't need, and that the permanent and real solution is to get rid of that unneeded "something' in your life.

Love everything because when you focus on love as the rule of your life, everything becomes simple, it becomes very easy for you to let go, to forgive and forget. Simple people who have mastered loving people will simply let go and think positively. They give everybody a chance to try better next time. Te way they conquer is to always find something positive in everything.

And while everybody else is busy running around beating deadlines, simple people make time to stop and watch life unfold each day.


2. Eat right

The right diet is not just a balanced one meat, carbohydrates, veggies and fruits but the serious inclusion of natural food supplements from rare super herbs and other natural sources. These supplements are the best promoters of a long, healthy life, especially in these days of takes and second-rate commercial items. Moreover, a balanced diet is not just having a balance on a variety of foods. It is primarily having a balance between macronutrients and micronutrients.


3. Do exercise and Enjoy exercise

You must enjoy exercise to live longer. But sometime you have less of motivation or weaker. So if you don't enjoy let don't do it, so do it if it fits your lifestyle.

Don't you need have exercise until you feel tired, only need you have relax and feel good increase your energy.

You should remember do exercise regular, 3 to 4 times a week and do it with half hour per time because that is way you keep something up on you.

If you today like to do something else let do it, only mean you do exercise because it really help motivate you to do.

And feel good about your health, body that fit you make, that is so good enough because bring to you healthy lifestyle.

Don't matter when you do exercise, let do if you can as you can when you feel want to do exercise, keep it up to bring your day with enough time for your health enough and feel good.

Having healthy internal organs is more important than having big muscles. So you should choose what type of exercise that help that like aerobic exercises, run, and breathing in a healthy environment.

Always listen to your body when you do exercise, because when it urges you that it cannot do more. Let do more next time. That mean is you don't need strain yourself too much when you want to do exercise.

Sometime you can do like pause a while for deep breathing, and make sure that is good air and blood circulation in your body. Rest and relax in-between exercises.

Make sure to drink lot of water or natural fruit juices.

So I tell you 3 areas of health happy lifestyle and have more areas that you can research but you only can focus on what is important and simple to do. If you love this information let like or comment and you know who need that let share it. Thank you!


Friday, February 7, 2014

The Secret Of Happiness - Bring Happy Immediately

There are many people think that need have money to happy, but in fact don't like that. In this article I will talk about the secret of happiness that don't need have more money to do. As we know happy is thing that every want to have in life but don't know how to make happy because there are many things we don't want happen in our life. Don't matter who you are and everything, you like me and you can get same to me with the secret of happiness that I tell you today.

With something bad happen but you can't do anything about it and you think that unfair to you, let you stop feeling sorry for yourself, because if you think negative that not help you and you should do something else that motivate you like get motivation from experts.

Blessing everyday, grateful all of wonderful things you have right now, it might be your family, your health, your income, your brain, your heart, your spirit even your success guide of experts then you will become happier people.

When we say “No”, it really holds us back in life. It closes us off to many of life’s wonderful experiences, and causes us to resist what happens around us.

We fight against what happens to us in life, rather than allowing it to be as it is. We resist it, rather than accepting it. We say “No!” rather than saying “Yes” – or even just “Okay.” By saying “Yes!” more to life, we go with the flow. Things become more enjoyable and positive, less stressful and anxious, and often the situation turns out for the better regardless. So, say yes more. And what about saying “Yes!” more socially too? So, if you’d like to flow more with the current of life... If you’d like to inject a little more excitement into your day... Then say yes more.

You need to find what makes you truly happy. Follow your bliss. One thing bliss is not and that's money.

Let something gone if you can't do anything about it more.

The truth is that doing things for other people really makes us feel great.

Ask yourself right now what can make you happy, do it because the past has gone and the future is just imagined.

Live with what you always can do on your own, that is your experience life will make you happy with experience of good thing.

You should appreciate both side of everything, it mean how you mean what is happy if you don't know what is sadness. And you can use duality of problem to have motivation live better.

You should be more social, have more friends, and that not difficult only need you effort. First of all you need to be an attractive friend. Always remember be yourself and be positive person because no one like negative person. And you should make effort even they don't. If doesn't work out, they loss, move on and make sure you play numbers game, don't stop, keep going and going until you get enough friends.And the happiest people are person that have largest social circles.

When you give love more to your family you will be get more love too.

Do you know what is great thing in life? That is dream, do you have a dream? When everything down you also can follow your dream to live better life, because you love to do it, passion to do it until you get it. When that your life will change better forever.

Do something simple that you truly enjoy to do will bring you happy so keep doing it, keep it up.

Something happen in your life, by accept it you have experience more freedom, clear your emotions and become happier.

Make sure that you eat well and exercise will make you feel good about yourself, have more energy and have good health.

And, right now – laugh, dance, smile – and you will be happy.

If you love the secret of happiness that I tell you let comment or like or share for people that you think they need it. Thank you!

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Improve Communication Skill?

Communication skill is one of important and necessary skills help you success. With good communication skill not only help you have good source of information, effective also is one of important factors to build your social relationship.

To have success in the work or life, we not only need to have good ideas, we need to know how to talk about what we want and convenient other people. Problem not is what we talk, that we must to know how other people feel.

To have good communication skill you need to have believe in yourself, right method, and the first thing is you must to understand yourself and understand other people.  You want to other people listen to you, the first thing is you must respect and listen to them, understand what they are interested in. When meet new people, you need to be open, friendly, take care.... to have good first impression.

To have good communication you must give to them comfortable, talk about simple stories that also both interested in.

When meet new people, important thing is first impression. Before talk about something you must to have good action-style, simple and easy understand and attraction question or topic to make them feel you can help them something or make them enjoy with you.

To convenient listener, the first thing you must have their good feel about you. You must respect their desire, hobby and what they are interesting and prove for them you can give good idea for them.

People that convenient to other people is person that know how to leader themselves, control their action and emotion.

And final if you take care for how you look then it will give to other people good impression, show up you are person that take responsibility for yourself and good to be believe in you.

Monday, January 27, 2014

2 Things Help You Success In Life

There are many time I want stop my process when I feel bad, lack of believe in myself too and I don't know what to do to accomplish my work, my goal, my dream. I know have something I don't know, I don't understand what I need to do, how it happen, I mean if you don't understand that you will be stress more with yourself same to me before. So now I share 2 things help me so much when I understand how to use that, enjoy reading.

1. Get knowledge

If you want to have health, success, happy... you need to have knowledge. Because you want to do something you need to understand it, then you can do it right way and effective.

In life almost people have mistake or failure, but if you get mistake or failure, let you don't blame or excuse for your case without you or for your destiny... let you take responsibility with everything you do and ask yourself what you make wrong, do you give all of efforts... to change and overcome it.

Everyone not only do things that they love, that they also must to do things they don't want. Let you remember with both case you also must to accomplish your task even that work so hard to do. However, if you must to do things that you don't want, it will be less of effective. So you need to find enjoy things in that work to have more motivation to accomplish every work even work you don't like.

Let you improve yourself, get knowledge and passion to have success with what you are working on. So with every are of life, you want to have success also you need to learn, if you don't know let you need to ask, if you want to be best let you need to learn and that is spend your time for self improvement.

2. Remember your purpose

Passion come from what you love to do, but with work that we don't want, so what we need to do?

So first of all we must to know what is purpose of that work. The first is ask yourself what is your purpose when you decide to do that, then you ask how to do that. However, even you know what is purpose of that work but sometime you feel hard to do more, hard to keep moving... In that time, let you think to what is your purpose when you decide to do that work to overcome bad feel.

Motivation for you doing more is your purpose when you decide to do that work, you will spend more time to do it and find more new ways to do that work with more effective.